Trust is not a feeling – it’s a decision.
Any doubts just reflect on the number of times you trusted someone only to be disappointed or hurt.
Before giving your trust, the other party must earn it.
Are they reliable?
Sensitive to your needs?
Honest, ethical – do they have a sense of fairness?
Look for the good qualities and also keep eyes wide open for the bad ones.
You wouldn’t let a person into your house who you didn’t first have good reason to believe could be trusted. And then, you open the door.
The same applies to our lives.
Before making a conscious decision to put your trust into a person, institution or idea, make sure you feel comfortable about opening the door.
Think with your head – feel with your heart.
Not the other way around.
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