The divorced couple acting punitively against each other and often their children are an emotional mess that takes a huge toll.
Life is full of people who acted in a way that is over the top – inhumane, mean, even viscous.
Some people don’t deserve forgiveness, but do it for your sake.
To forgive does not mean to forget.
Forgiveness does not mean putting up with continued abuse that must be stopped in its tracks.
Don’t ask the perpetrator to also forgive – forgiveness is unilateral and without strings.
You don’t have to tell the other person that you forgive them, just know it yourself.
If you won’t forgive the other person because they don’t deserve it, you run the risk of becoming like the other person.
We gain control by giving up control and living life the way we want to be.
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