I saw an interesting article recently that suggested that phones and digital devices may not be the only source of stress in our lives.
That perhaps people are turning to social media to escape a world of pressure, impossible expectations and feelings of failure for the instant response of someone liking us on Facebook or following us on Instagram.
Fear feeds worry.
Then we begin to worry as if worry is a 100% predictor of doom that will soon follow.
99% of everything we fear never happens.
And in 1% of the cases when it does, what we feared does not happen as we imagined it would.
Yet when it comes to fear and worry, even those odds don’t seem to be good enough.
To stop worry in its tracks, ask what’s the worst that can happen?
Then, realistically how likely is that to occur?
This is important – and if it does, what’s your plan for dealing with your fear
Fear and worry are not rational so to get the emotion under control, add some reality.
What I’m fearing will probably not happen and if it does, here’s my plan – this approach goes a long way toward easing anxiety.
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