The prolific self-help author Wayne Dyer famously wrote:
“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.”
Not change the things you do.
Not put a bandage on it.
Or try something different.
Change the way you look at things and that paves the way for more intuitive decisions.
It’s why hitting “reset” at the New Year seldom works – there are no magic solutions to fixing the things that may be broken in life. It’s a temporary fix.
But look at your problems in a different way, from a different perspective, in a more global way and it is amazing how people can alter behavior and accomplish what previously was so difficult.