Doctors stop listening to patients after just 11 seconds.
Research at the University of Florida shows doctors may have patients but they have very little patience before jumping in after asking the question what brings you here.
It’s not just doctors.
Almost everyone can’t wait to hear themselves talk.
Being a good listener endears you to others and produces better outcomes in human interaction.
It is a secret that successful people know.
A bad listener cannot succeed in life for very long.
A rare few people are born good listeners but most of us have to work on that skill.
Listen until you can repeat back what you’ve heard so accurately that the person speaking can answer “yes” when you say “do I have that about right”.
Communication cannot begin until the message is received and confirmed by the person speaking.
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